Tuesday, 5 November 2013

It is not about you, it's about them.


It is not about you, it's about them





Remembrance day is not about you. It's not about if you believe in war, what your political beliefs are or morals and values. It's about remembering those brave men and women who have given up their life. You may not agree how they died, but the simple fact is they did and we as Canadians should remember them. The last line of the poem In Flanders Fields is:

If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields

We don't have to believe in war or agree with the reason, but simply don't break faith. Remember them because it is not about you. On Remembrance day I remember them, I also give pause to think of the families that have lost soldiers as well. The families who had no choice in the sacrifice, the spousals and children of the fallen soldiers. Remembrance day is for them too. We acknowledge their loss.

Each year when I buy my poppy (and lets face it more than once cuz they tend to escape) if the person selling it is a vet or in the service I thank them, because remembering is for them too. My daughter this year bought her poppy from a soldiers Mom and remembered to tell her son that a little girl from Oshawa thanks him for his service. Like war or not, the fact of the matter is if there wasn't a need we wouldn't have the Canadian Armed Forces. Thank a soldier for his or her service, remember the fallen and the families of those who have and have some respect.