The New Lesbian Dating

The New Lesbian Dating

After pretty much being single for the last year, I've decided I'm going to put a little effort in dating now. I realized in order to attract the right girl I had to know what I wanted in life, and what I want from her. I've done some major house keeping (both metaphorically and literally). I've learned a great deal about myself this past year and am learning new things about myself every day. Because I have MS, I am fairly adaptable and realized that I adjust to change with as much determination as I do when I'm learning to walk again.

During new years, a close friend and I said that this is our year and I'm starting to believe him. This is my year. Last year provided me the tools I needed to equip myself for the coming events of this year. Although I am fighting many battles I learned that I am a warrior. The difference between a soldier and a warrior is a soldier gets paid to fight battles and is ordered to do so, a warrior will fight because he or she has to, or chooses too and believes in the cause. I am a warrior, I battle MS and Depression because I have to, I fight for me because I choose too.

So far the dating scene has been as slow as I've wanted it to be. Recently I've been contacted by a friend who I met many months back. She and I shared a few of the same battles and I'm happy to be reacquainted with her. I'm no longer afraid of what is to come, the worst that could happen is I end up with a good friend. I'm starting to trust my gut instincts with people and have realized that it is rarely wrong. I learned that if your mind, heart and gut are in conflict. Listen to your gut. It's kind of a built in safe guard.

Today I am awesome because I am adaptable to change!