Lesbian Dating the sequel
I've always known I was a
little bit different. People always used to say that I march to the
beat of my own drum. I'm weird in a good way. I'm unique. My
friend convinced me to go back on line and give it another kick at
the can. It's spring and and I figured that girls would want to get
out and do stuff like go for a walk or something. I've been absent
in the online dating world for about a month and I truly think spring
fever has struck. As I am wading through the sea of online profiles
I find more and more they are coming in a category of two things:
Casual Sex or U haul lesbians. Either sort I'm not inclined to go
out with. I comprehend that people have basic needs and wants, but
am I so out of touch with reality that this has become the ONLY thing
that they want. What happened to dating? My kingdom for a girl who
wants to get to know me first as a person. Then you have the
opposite end of the scale, the girls who latch on and believe that
they have met their life long mates after a few dates. I'm not sure
about the rest of the world, but when I tell someone I love them, it
means something. It means that I have created a bond with you that I
would be deeply wounded if I lost. I mean, anyone I have ever told I
love you to I still do. I mean, I wouldn't enter in a relationship
with them, but when you truly love someone that bond is a permanent
thing and although the relationship changes over time, the bond still
exists. Perhaps I am just old school.
Can anyone tell me what
mostly monogamous is? I mean is it monogamous until you don't want
to be anymore? Throw me a bone!
I can relate! I have been out of the "dating scene" for over 15 years due to a life-changing trauma. I have recently begun to reconnect w/women online and it's a jungle of vipers out there! Maybe that's a little harsh, but that seems to cover the majority of secular lesbians. I found a good place to connect to Christian lesbians on Facebook. I, too, am old school and believe in respect and integrity.
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